I have always hated New Year’s. I feel I start alot of my blogs this way, but I truly hate New Year’s. I think it’s because I have always felt very alone. Every year, when I was a kid, we would visit family; I wouldn’t be with any friends or anyone my own age, for that matter. I was alone with my own devices. Later in life, I had a boyfriend abandoned me on New Year’s. I was stuck by myself that night playing my 3DS on my grandmother’s couch.
It’s not that I have no where to go on New Year’s, and it really doesn’t matter. I think, deep down, I’m melancholy because something is ending. Time is subjective, and the idea of a year ‘ending’ is socially constructed. This time, however, I don’t necessarily feel melancholy. I feel apathetic if any thing. I really should be celebrating this past year. I really have accomplished alot in 2017. Despite living in a poor political and social climate, I have done well.
That’s hard for me to say. I feel like I never do enough. I feel, deep down, I wasted my year. I have to constantly remind myself my accomplishments. Hell, I’m writing on a regular basis, and I bought a house!
I’m trying to look towards the future. I am going to try and shed a few pounds. I really want to learn Japanese (and hopefully go visit there in the fall), and I want to watch every ‘best picture’ winner this year. The one thing I want most: life to slow down. Just a tiny bit.
-E